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November 28, 2007

An Exciting Weekend of Ministry

Grinch It's Wednesday and a BIG study day for me....!

I cant begin to tell you how much I appreciate the prayers.  Whatever hit me Monday afternoon is broken, as strong as it was, and I am feeling GREAT!

I am excited about what is developing for both the messages I am working on for this weekend. 

First, the Mens Retreat.  We have a great group of men going out to camp Baldwin this weekend!  It is a fantastic setting to do alot of walking along the lake, play basketball, re-create.  Pastor Craig will be challenging our men Friday night.  I will have Saturday morning and am really getting excited about the direction that the 'flow' is going! 

If you are a MAN and havent signed up yet, its not too late.  Call Scott Ongalo at 712-8683.  He will get you fixed up and if you need $$ help, we will make sure you make it there no matter what! 

God is going to do something powerful with our men this weekend!

I have to jump to our 2 Sunday services coming up...... 

Somehow, God gives a pastor a sense of expectation BEFORE something is going to happen.  I KNOW this coming Sunday is going to be one of those "high impact" Sundays already.  What we have for Sunday morning is so good, that one of the guys in our Creative team meeting on Monday who wont be able to be there said, "Man!! I cant begin to believe I am going to have to miss this!!  Is there any way we can video this???" 

Unfortunately, with the lighting at the RAVE, we cant film it and the message will be highly visual so listening would miss much of the impact.  But trust me:  You do NOT want to miss Sunday morning!

Then, Sunday night at Harvest @ 5 will be a hoot.....a great way to get your family into the Christmas spirit!  We are starting our "Christmas at the Movies" series where we are taking a 'classic' Christmas movie each week and intertwining God's truth around it. 

Let me just say I stayed up late last night watching Jim Carrey in "The Grinch" and this Sunday night is going to be alot of fun, as well as very, very enlightening in dealing with the 'Grinches' in your life.....you know....those people that no matter how good of a mood you come in on, have a way of bringing you down..????? 

Oh....you dont have any of those.  RIIIGGGHHHTTT!!!

Thanks for praying for this coming weekend.  We are trusting the Holy Spirit to do something great.  INVITE EVERY PERSON YOU CAN THINK OF TO COME THIS SUNDAY. We tag team with you guys to see the mission of Jesus accomplished:  Bringing seekers in, turning them into Spirit empowered servants of Jesus Christ!

Have a good one!

PB

November 27, 2007

Hit By A Truck..!

Sick I woke up Monday morning with a queezy stomach.  By 1:00, I could feel strength leaving my body.  By 3:00? 

I sat in our Creative meeting, head down on the table, enduring until I could race home. 

I felt like a literal Mack Truck had hit me head on!

I HATE being sick!!!!  Hate it, hate it, hate it, HATE it......!!!!!!

By 5pm, I kid you not, every inch of skin on me hurt.  Every muscle was aching.  Forget email.  Forget anything.  I just wanted 1 thing:  A BED! 

My honey fixed me some chicken soup and gave me some Alkaseltser Cold PM.  LIGHTS OUT!!

I slept 11 hours and think I sweat out most of it.  It is amazing how fast sickness can grip you.  I have not slept that long in at least 20 years, but obviously my body was needing it to repair.

I appreciate any prayer you can direct this way, as I have to prepare 2 messages this week, 1 for the Men's Retreat on Friday night, the other for Sunday.  I am believing to be at full strength for both.

Grace,

PB

November 26, 2007

Monday Mind Dump

  • It was great having all the kids here last week!  Brit left for 2 weeks to Mexico Sunday morning where they will be roughing it to minister to the villages.  Man, she had to have 'real' camping gear....I felt like an ATM machine....subzero sleepbag....$$$!!!.....hiking boots...$$$!!!.....backpack....She was real sad to leave.  :(
  • Michael and I (really more him...:)...) but up and took down Christmas lights on the house 3 times.  Lesson learned:  Check the lights BEFORE you put them up.  After putting them up, we took down our old set and I went to Sams and got colored ones.  No go for my wife! I have learned where to assert myself after 23 years and things for the house is not one of those places......:)  Back to Sams, new set, put them up...they were terrible.  Now we have nothing...:(...and Michael is gone.  Bummer....
  • Speaking of bummers, I lost 4 pounds at the start of last week, only to gain it ALL back Thanksgiving weekend.  I ran every day to lose that weight.  Why is it so HARD to lose, but so, so easy to gain??@???!!??  It really, seriously is not right...!!
  • Pulling out of that tailspin and back to the positive :), Night of Worship was seriously FANTASTIC.  Great crowd, and just anointed.  There is nothing on earth that can fill and bring the contentment that God's Presence brings. 
  • From what I hear, our annual Benevolence Offering to help those who face needs in the coming year was good.....around $2400 is the last I heard.  We had alot of our people out in the AM service so I know more should be coming, but that is a good start to bless those who hit hard patches in our flock.
  • A highlight of Thanksgiving Day was all us grownups playing Guitar Hero!  Man, that is a fun game.  My sis couldnt believe I was playing a game that featured all the songs I burned after I got 'crazy saved'!  Really was a good time though....
  • I woke up this am around 5 with a sick stomach.  I HATE being sick! 

Time to get back on my diet.  A grapefruit on a sour stomach......hmmmmm.....

Have a great day!

PB

November 21, 2007

Much To Be Thankful For....

Thanksgiving As I sit here at my desk on Wednesday evening, I felt a wave of gratitude fill my heart as I took some time to catch up with old friends (via my kids Facebook accounts!...:)...) and new.   

It's Thanksgiving tommorow.  Here are a few things I thank the Father for in this season....

  • My beautiful wife, Debbie, of almost 24 years.  I have been a 'clod' for much of that time, but she has stuck with me! :)
  • Each of my kids, Michael, Brittany, Victoria.  Each is in love with Jesus.  Each is so unique.  A dad could not ask for more.
  • All of my friends, most of who serve with me at Harvest.  People wonder why there isn't a feel of 'church politics' at Harvest.  Very simple:  Friends dont play those games!  I love doing life and ministry with the people around me.  Can it get better than that???
  • My dad.  He came through a year that I cant even begin to imagine in losing my mom.  His resiliency is inspiring.
  • The fact that I was able to invest time with my mom for the last few years before she passed.  I have no regrets, not one.  The Lord was gracious and kind all through the process of her parting.  She is now out of the 'Shadowlands' and in the place of the 'real' Real. 
  • My church.  I LOVE this church and would attend it even if I wasnt the Pastor.  I believe in it with every fiber of my being.  I love being a church that is serious about helping people find their way back to God.
  • My health.  I kind of lost it for about a year, but am feeling strong again.  When you dont feel right everything is off.
  • GRACE.  Honestly, I dont deserve ANY of the above.  Jesus changed my life, set it in a new direction, and has blessed me.  Without question, had grace not drawn me, I would have been divored at least once, an alcoholic hooked on cigs, .....basically LOST.  Grace found me and I want to glorify God with every day I have.

HAVE A GREAT THANKSGIVING!!!

PB

November 20, 2007

Sample Prayer Journal Entry

Journal I have to say I am pretty amazed at how much feedback Sunday night got.  People are craving practical help, ..... along with inspiration, ..... especially the young people in our church family.

As I said Sunday night, Inspiration without Application leads to Frustration.....

I think we have alot of frustrated folk out in the Body of Christ!

With that, I have had a few requests over the past 2 days for me to post what I do, using the "S-O-A-P" method.  You start with Scripture (S) from your daily Bible reading plan, then write your Observations (O) on the ONE passage that struck you.  From there, you write the Application (A) of this to your own life.  You then finish with a short Prayer (P) that expresses your heart to God to work in you from what His Word has challenged you on.

This is such an enjoyable practice!  It is pretty cool writing your own devotional from what God speaks to your heart and mind personally!  I limit each days entry to ONE page only, as I want to work at being concise in what I write and say. 

May God Himself meet you through your times in His Word....!

PB

First Love

Nov 17, 2007

Scripture:  "But I have this complaint against you:  You dont love Me or each other the way you did at first.  Look how far you have fallen!...(Rev 2:4)

Observation: As we get older, we mature and usually do more for God.  We lead small groups.  We are on the worship team.  We preach.  We teach, pastor, whatever.  We are involved with the church, which is good and should always be a core part of our lives.  BUT, the one thing Jesus is always looking for, that we usually lose sight of, is "Do I LOVE Jesus and my brothers and sisters in Christ the way I did in the beginning?"  LOVE, God's love, filling our hearts is something Jesus seeks from us continually.  When Jesus first came into my life, everything was fresh and new.  I was a "Jesus Freak"! I easily overlooked offenses from others.  I cared deeply about my friends and their walk with God.  When they stumbled, I was upset.  Why?  I LOVED them.  God's love was present in my heart.

Application:  I need to continually check my "love gauge":  Do my affections stir for Christ? Does it bother me that people are lost and going to hell without Christ?  Do I grieve when I hear of fellow Christians falling into sin? Do I want to go to prayer meetings, to opportunities to grow closer to the Lord?  Has my love grown cold?

Prayer:  "Lord Jesus, when You look upon my life, I want you to see me doing those 'first works' that show 'first love'.  Fill me, my King.  Love and loyalty, Bobby

November 19, 2007

Weekend Review 11/19

  • Michael came in Friday and was able to play in the Harvest Softball game......we are in 2nd place in the league with 2 games to go.  A couple things I noticed:  Man, we have some ladies on our team who are HITTERS!  They just consistently hit into the holes and get on base.  Another thing I noticed:  Our guys (some of them) dont seem to be able to LISTEN! :)  3 times they were tagged out for running past the 3rd base coaches "STOP" and were called out at home.  You guys are too good for that!!!!!  We lost by 4 runs.....:(
  • Went to see "The Kingdom" at the dollar theater.  I had seen it already myself, but the others I was with had not.  It was amazing how much less the movie impacted you due to poor sound and poor screen.  The place was SO poorly managed that 3 times I had to get up and go to the manager asking for the sound to be turned up, as there were parents with crying babies who would not take their kids out.  WHAT A LESSON for us as a church!!!!  We ask parents to go to the cry room for this very reason, as it is impossible to concentrate with babies crying, as much as I love them.  The managers response to me was so telling:  "We are closing in a few weeks, as they are tearing down this section of the mall in March."  Great.  Wish I had known before coming..! :)
  • On a better note......:)....We had a FANTASTIC Sunday at Harvest!  Great crowd, lots of new faces Sunday morning.  There is a genuine work of the Spirit that is happening in this season.  The guy I talked to a few weeks ago who was not yet a Christian, when I saw him going out, was glowing, and had brought his wife!  PEOPLE ARE MAKING THEIR WAY BACK TO GOD EACH WEEK AND I AM LOVING IT!!!!!!
  • Harvest @ 5 was packed.  We had 7 couples dedicating their children to the Lord and it was awesome!  3 of these were new who previous to coming to Harvest were unchurched.  Michael led worship with his former youth band and they knocked it out of the park!  Good job!! 
  • I spoke on "Prayer Journaling" and made it very practical so people could actually leave and DO it.  I had a lot of people who really appreciated the message and were going to buy a Moleskin today and get started.  Go our website www.harvestpensacola.com and go to podcasts to listen to the message.  Again, very practical....
  • Meetings, meetings, meetings....today.......have a good one!!!

PB

November 15, 2007

Grumbling and Complaining

Complaining Every so often, something crosses my desk that is well worth passing on.  I was convicted as I read this, and think it is time very well spent to SLOW DOWN and take this one in.

Grace, and see many of you Sunday at Harvest!

PB 

http://frangipane.org/

Declaring War On Ungratefulness and Grumbling
By Francis Frangipane

From my earliest Christian years I've heard questions about Jesus' comment concerning Judas Iscariot: "Did I Myself not choose you, the twelve, and yet one of you is a devil?" (John 6:70)

What did Jesus mean? Was Judas genetically a devil and not a man? (Jesus didn't say Judas had a devil, He said he was a devil). Can a devil actually live among people as a human?

While I am no scholar in ancient Greek, I think truth is better served reading the literal translation of this verse. The word translated as "devil," diabolos, is the same word translated elsewhere in the New Testament as "slanderer" or "malicious gossip" (see 1 Tim. 3:11; 2 Tim. 3:3).

When Jesus says that Judas is a devil, He is saying one of you is a "false accuser," a "slanderer," a "malicious gossip." Judas could not keep his negative perspective to himself.

Remember, just before Judas delivered Jesus to the Pharisees, he was offended that Jesus allowed a expensive ointment to be lavished on His hair. Judas indignantly complained: "Why was this perfume not sold for three hundred denarii, and given to poor people?" (John 12:5). His words spread strife among the other apostles as well (Matt. 26:8).

Judas said, in effect, Who permitted this thoughtless luxury?

Well, it was Jesus. The woman had anointed Him for His burial. Yet, to Judas this was an extravagance that Jesus shouldn't have taken. In the angry mind of Judas Iscariot, here was justification to go to the chief priests. He had grounds to break ranks with Christ (Matt. 26:14-15).

God Has a Problem With Grumblers


Betrayal is never a sudden thing; rather, it is an accumulative response to the unresolved anger and disappointment one feels toward another. The offenses we do not transfer to God in surrendered prayer inevitably decay and become a venom we transfer to others through gossip. In the process, we embrace slander, but we feel justified. We become malicious gossips, but in our minds we're only communicating a "truth," a character flaw, that we self-righteously "discerned."

To understand Judas' betrayal of Christ, we must unearth its source: Judas Iscariot was grumbler.

(a powerful thought here...imo...pb...)  When we lose sight of the many things for which we should be thankful, we become murmurers and complainers, increasingly darkened by a thought-life engendered by hell.

Beware when your anger toward another Christian has led you to gossip about him or her, especially if you are embittered and are now sowing criticisms about him to others. Yes, beware: you are no longer being conformed to Christ, but are actually becoming more like Judas than Jesus.

Grumblers Everywhere
Of course, this grumbling attitude was not isolated to Judas' betrayal of Jesus. Many would-be disciples and Jewish leaders were also infected with murmuring. Consider: there were miracles everywhere, Christ had just fed the 5000, when a very large crowd of His disciples began to find fault. Yet, even though Jesus warned, "Do not grumble among yourselves" (John 6:43), still the crowd persisted. Remember, these were Christ's disciples, and they were not grumbling at a sinner, but the only sinless man who ever lived.

"But Jesus, conscious that His disciples grumbled at this," asked, "Does this cause you to stumble?" (John 6:61). And then, the grumbling spirit continued until "many of His disciples withdrew, and were not walking with Him anymore" (John 6:66).

Grumbling caused people to stop seeing and appreciating miracles. It caused disciples to be offended by Jesus' teaching and stop walking with Him.

As it was then, so it is today. Grumbling will ultimately cause you to stop walking with Jesus. It is a killer. You see, incredibly, not just the Pharisees and Judas Iscariot found fault with Jesus, even His disciples grumbled at times. Heaven was manifest in their midst and all they were focused on was what they perceived was wrong. That's what a grumbling attitude can do.

This poison of ingratitude is prevalent in the church today. Paul warned that, "in the last days . . . men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips" (2 Timothy 3:1-9).

You get the point: "men will be . . . malicious gossips" or devils. They will be given to destroying one another with their words.

The Thankful Heart
Personally, I've declared war on grumbling. An unthankful heart is an enemy to God's will. Can you join me with this? Can you crucify a murmuring spirit? We have received too much from God to allow ourselves opportunities for ingratitude and unbelief! We have received too many gifts and privileges to allow grumbling to disqualify us of our destiny.

The thankful heart sees the best part of every situation. It sees problems and weaknesses as opportunities, struggles as refining tools. My prayer is for each of us to possess the abundant life that Jesus came to give us. I want to drive that little, ugly grumbling demon away from our hearts, and replace it with a living awareness of the goodness of God!

Paul warned,"Nor let us . . . grumble, as [Israel] did, and were destroyed by the destroyer" (1 Cor. 10:9-10). The moment we open ourselves to grumbling, we simultaneously open up to destruction.

"Whatever is true, whatever is honorable . . . is right, whatever is pure . . . lovely . . . of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things" (Phil. 4:8).

Remember, Paul was writing to people in the ancient Roman world. It was full of evil, full of injustice, full of reasons to grumble and be upset; but instead, God calls His people to a higher realm, where we dwell on the things that are above.

You say, "Who then will point out all the things that are wrong with life?"

Oh, there are plenty of volunteers for that task. Better to ask, "How can I attain the blessed life Jesus came to give me?"

You say, "But the world is wicked. We need to decry and defeat evil." Yes, and I totally agree, I often decry evil myself. But I must live and offer a better life if I am going to defeat evil. God doesn't want His people to be grumbling about the difficult conditions of existence. He wants us to be mercy-motivated, redemption-orientated, prayer-empowered ambassadors of heaven.

If we are merely complaining about what's wrong with the people around us, we should beware: we may actually be more like followers of Judas rather than Jesus.

November 14, 2007

My Daughter Brittany.....The Preacher??

Dscn1178 Last night, Deb, Tory and I were cuddled up on the sofa, eating pizza, watching "Transformers" when the phone rang. 

It was Brittany, HAVING to tell us about what had happened to her that day!

As most of you know, Brittany, our oldest daughter, is up in Birmigham in an intense discipleship program called "24/7". The assignment for this week was to preach a message to all the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd year students, as well as pastors. 

Brit has never done anything REMOTELY like this before, and has always steered away from the limelight.  She was major nervous about it when we were there with her Monday. She would be critiqued and ranked against all the others, many of them being guys that are there to train for pastoral ministry.

Well, she not only made it thru, she was UNANIMOUSLY voted the best!! 

She was so excited she could hardly contain herself!  She said that as she spoke, she could sense the presence of the Lord within minutes, and she could see the people critiquing her putting down their critique sheets and picking up notebooks to take notes.  When she was finished, the pastor came up and just said, "I dont know what to say........I really am overwhelmed........most use cliches, but you had phrases I have never heard....where did you get this from?? 

When she said "in my prayer time", he said, "Well from now on, its OURS and we are using that in 24/7 from this point on!"

The church there, Highlands, has about 6000 attending, with a youth ministry of about 500, and they are setting up her speaking to the kids. 

Quite, cool.....! :)

It is awesome to see our kids, like beautiful flowers, bud open.  We have always laid our hands on our kids heads each night, and morning, and blessed them with FAVOR, declaring that they will 'be the head, not the tail, .... blessed to be a blessing."

As we hung up, I told Brit not to think she could have my job......yet,... anyway.  :)  What is funny is that she has preached her 1st message at 19.  I was 23!

I am excited about the next generation of church leaders like never before.  May they stand on our shoulders and reach far higher than we ever could!

A proud papa...:)

PB

November 13, 2007

Hits

Hits A few years ago, I heard the great H.B. Landon, known as the "Pastor to the Pastors" with Focus on the Family, say the following: 

"The Pastoral profession has a much higher rate of exit than any other profession.  The reason is that a pastor is continually having to deal with 'loss'.  Church members die.  Church members move.  Church members (like sheep) often get disgruntled and leave for another church.  New people come in, but the effect of those who leave or move affects the shepherd much more, as he knows them, he has invested in them, married them, dedicated their babies, walked through major life events with them, and thereby his emotions are involved each time.  The cumulative weight of these 'hits' can have a crippling effect on even the strongest of pastors."

Wise words from a very wise man....

....the average person in church has no idea how true his words are.

The latest statistics state that the average church in America will experience an 80% turnover rate every 5 years.  That means that every 8 out of 10 people in your church today will not be with you 5 years from now. 

The reasons are multiple: people are more consumeristic in mindset, more mobile.......their needs change, their social structures change, ...etc....but the net bottom line is that the average church must grow by 80% (almost DOUBLE) every 5 years just to keep even!

Looking back over directories from years past, we have been about average at Harvest.  For me personally, it is hard to look back at those directories, as every one of those people I miss. They were a part of my life and arent anymore. 

Its kind of like as the pastor, you and your family and the 20% "core" that God has placed around you are the oak tree that is stable and in place as you watch people come in for a season, however long, then zip along, with new faces replacing them that you pour into, entrusting your work to God.

That is probably the reason I tear up every time I see Charlotte's Web......you know, the last scene where Charlotte's babies fly away??  I hate that scene..!!! :)

Not sure if that all makes sense to you, but as the late John Wimber said (Vineyard churches), "We are in the 'people-processing' business! You have some for a short term, some longer, some for good.  You clean up and help as many as you can, as much as you can, with what God has given you, then you release them." 

I relate with alot of other pastors who all of course experience the same thing.  They ask me how I personally deal with it. 

My answer is as above:  "I release and bless them, no strings attached." 

Any other way is damaging to them, damaging to me, damaging to the churchThey belong to JESUS, not me, and I just hope I and those serving by my side will be found faithful when all is said and done with the lives entrusted to our care.

To richer, deeper levels of GRACE....!

PB

November 11, 2007

In Birmingham.....

Hilton Deb, Tory and I drove up to Bham Sunday after church this morning to spend a few days with Brit, as we havent seen her in 2 months.  And get this:  I got the Hilton across from the Summit for $59...!!!

I LOVE Priceline...!

We got here around 5ish and met up at our favorite restaurant, PF Changs, then caught the movie "Fred Claus".  All I can say is that I fell asleep half way thru......no comment. :)

I called Pastor Roger a bit ago and he said worship tonight at the 5 was powerful, very free.  Pastor Craig, in Roger's words, "knocked it out of the park as usual."  I was impressed with our crowd this morning being Veteran's Day weekend, as it is usually a low Sunday, but I didnt feel my message was all the way 'on it'.  The funny thing is that I have learned that the times I feel less, God seems to do more, the times I feel more, God seems to do less.

Interesting....

We are only here for one night then head back home Monday evening.  LOTS of shopping for my little girl tommorow.  We did Target for an hour before the movie and my inner 'shopping clock' went off and I was DONE.  I really, honestly dont get how women can look at every rack, talk, try on this, that......but I love my girls, so I just nod and say 'yes' alot.....:)

Time for bed...

PB